Thursday, November 11, 2010

Dear Gavriel

Dear Gavriel,

I came to you a broken man, angry and frustrated, with my head filled with many futile thoughts. And you in your wonderful calm way taught me meditation. This taught me how to calm down, empty my head of thoughts and look out at the world with a proper perspective. I am 57 years old and most of my life passed in anger with futile thoughts. It is not easy to change at this age. I have changed, my head no longer has futile and empty thoughts and I am enjoying life. All of this is to your credit. Thank you dear brother.

Thank you very much.

Shabti G.
Manager of technology information systems

Thursday, November 4, 2010

Letter of Recomendation

Tsfat, 1st Kislev, 5771

To whom it may concern

We hereby acknowledge that Rabbi Shmuel Gavriel Tornek has been giving classes and workshops at Ascent in the framework of a meditation seminar called "Living in Divine Space".

In the course of the seminar, Rabbi Tornek has given an introduction to Kosher Meditation which was very well received by the participants of all ages and backgrounds.

Classes were followed by meditation exercises that were greatly appreciated. People left the seminar with a totally new approach to the subject. Rabbi Tornek has shown a lot of patience and dedication spending a lot of time to answer questions and one to one conversations.

We look forward to having him come again for a new seminar on the subject.

Nadav Cohen
Head of Program Department

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

The Purpose

The purpose of the "ThinkTov" organization is twofold: 1) to offer people an alternative to meditations involving idol worship and foreign philosophy; 2) to give them a chance to discover spiritual Judaism. This is one of the directives of the Lubavitcher Rebbe.

Those in the first category will benefit greatly from the disc and if they wish to continue on the path of discovering spiritual Judaism, I would recommend the Chasidic Heritage series. They are Chassidic discourses translated into English with the accompanying Hebrew text. I recommend finding a nice selection of them and then choosing one with a title that really speaks to you. Read through it lightly once then more in depth a second, a third and a forth time, one of those times should be in the original Hebrew. This helps the soul connect.

After this you will see a difference in your life in general. When you pray (daven) I recommend choosing a verse or two preferably from the beginning of the shema, the amida or the birkat hamazon and learn the meaning of the Hebrew words. Concentrate on them fully; take a number of deep calming breaths then say them while looking and absorbing within yourself each letter. You may also do this with your eyes closed if you wish. Say the words on the natural exhale. That is, instead of exhaling for the sake of speaking, speak with the rhythm of the natural exhale. At this point the context of the Chassidic discourse will rise up in your mind unifying the letters with the concept and bring great light into the world. This light is partially revealed within yourself by the spiritual experience that you will be having at the moment.

The Disc

The disc involves basic meditation techniques as per the Rebbe's request "without Chassidic or kabalistic intentions so people will choose something Kosher and permissible as apposed to something involving avoda zora (idol worship) or a philosophy foreign to the Judaism".

If you have practiced mindfulness meditation, you are probably familiar with at least the first two of the seven steps. The seven steps were designed to aid a person in achieving a desire to actively use and focus the mind. This is in accordance with the concept "think good and it will be good" as taught in the Chassidic doctrine in depth.

Wednesday, October 6, 2010

Contemporary Meditation and Chabad Hitbonenut Meditation

Question:
I am interested in Hitbonenut (Jewish contemplation meditation).
I have a good background in meditation. I have studied Tanya and Chassidus but have had a hard time finding a practical way to learn Hitbonenut. Here in the US, it seems that most Chabad people do NOT practice Hitbonenut nor can they explain how to incorporate it into one’s life and Avodat Hashem (service of G-d).
I have over 20 years of mindfulness meditation background and I am comfortable w/ that practice. As far as Hitbonenut, the only way it was ever explained was to "memorize a maamor (mystical dissertation) of the Rebbe and think about it before davening (prayers)". If that is what Hitbonenut is nowadays, I will stick w/ mindfulness meditation because, clearly, that is NOT what Tanya is saying.

Answer:
Thank you for your question. It is a very good question. I understand why you would think "Chabad people do NOT practice Hitbonenut let alone explain how to incorporate it into one’s life and Avodat Hashem (service of G-d)".

You are asking for an explanation of Hitbonenut according to your understanding of meditation. In order to correctly explain Hitbonenut one would first have to be familiar with contemporary meditation techniques. Most Chabad rabbis are not familiar with these techniques. They have their own philosophy and live their lives based on that philosophy. You actually received the answer to your question when they told you to "memorize a maamor and think about it before davening". However, you did not understand the answer since you are not familiar with the Chabad approach to meditation. You are both communicating in different languages. I will try to clarify.

Actually Chabad IS Hitbonenut meditation.

There are many different styles of meditation but all meditation breaks down to two main categories: passive and active.

You can have passive meditation without active meditation and active meditation can be achieved without passive meditation. Both methods, however, will be more effective if each includes the other.

Each method has its pros and cons. The advantage of passive meditation is that it will allow you to reach a state of inner peace and awareness of your surroundings. The cons of passive meditation, however, are that if it becomes your main focus it will lead you to imagine that you "feel" enlightened but leave you static and mentally undeveloped.

When passive meditation is used correctly the euphoric state will be ignored and a person will try to attain the wisdom and recognition of self he experiences during those states. When used incorrectly a person may end up spending his life seeking more euphoric states and will ultimately "feel" like he is failing if he does not experience them. This may make him lose interest in practicing truly enlightening active meditation since he does not experience the "feeling". This concept is explained nicely at this link

Wisdom is the goal of Chabad as implied by the name "Chabad" which is an acronym for chochma, bina, da’at – referring to three different forms of intellect, upon which I cannot elaborate at this point. The only true wisdom is G-d Himself since there is nothing other than Him. This means that He is our very existence. He allows us to tap into this wisdom and existence itself through the learning and practice of Torah. The Torah is Him condensed and encapsulated into physical words and letters, laws and customs.

A maamor of chassidut is Torah and its purpose is to reveal His essence in the physical world and describe His manifestation in that world which is itself a physical aspect of G-d Himself.

If you learn one of these maamorim by heart, learning not just the words but the entire concept and you incorporate that concept into your life, simply by learning it at least four times and understanding it. You will see that you will begin to live it and breathe it. Meaning, once learned, the maamor will be embedded in your life and you will be encompassed by it. The maamor will bring a new awareness to the day-to-day occurrences of your life.

Our souls are placed into our physical bodies to allow us to perform physical acts. This activity is impossible while in a passive meditative state. At best we can hope to apply the meditative experience we have to real life. But when we learn Chassidut we actually live in a state of heightened awareness where we experience the divine on a regular basis, because Chassidut opens our awareness and attunes us to that divinity. This awareness is called "gadlut hamochin" or expansion of the mind.

During the times of the Second Temple, one of the reasons the people of Israel were drawn toward foreign worship (i.e. idolatry) was because they became so involved in the rapture of the idolatrous meditations that they forgot about the divine. They became blinded by the physical beauty, so to speak, and chose the ministers over the King Himself.

Chabad is the kabbalah for our generation. It is a part of G-d's wisdom and it can be quite euphoric in its own right. To attain that euphoric state you must learn it. Memorize it. Live it. Don't look for the easy way out, the way of momentary visions and illusions of spiritual enlightenment.

There are many stories told of the Rebbeim or their Chassidim entering into a meditative trance and leaving their bodies as well as many other mystical stories. All these stories were possible because these Chassidim were completely involved in the divine to the degree that their physical existence became a vehicle to achieve awareness of the divine.

In short the passive meditation of mindfulness is good for it allows you to become an observer and learn to steep yourself in the moment. It is also very good for your health, as science has proven over the past 30 years. Check out this link for a talk of the Rebbe concerning meditation and health.

The active meditation of Chabad, namely, Hitbonenut, allows you to become an observer while still remaining active in the moment. It allows you to live your life actively in a heightened state of awareness. And since souls were put in physical bodies to perform, this is the preferred state.

Someone with your background in passive meditation should be able to experience very intense moments by learning Chassidut as prescribed above. It may even give you a jump on the average Chassid who does not understand the passive state, as well as you do. But don't underestimate the average Chassid either. They know the state of heightened awareness of G-d and they live with it every moment.

I teach people basic, passive meditation techniques first, I then teach them active meditation techniques. Once someone learns and becomes efficient in these (which does not take long if taken seriously) then they may want to connect it with their active Jewish daily service as prescribed by the code of Jewish law. They may want to take it to the next level using Hitbonenut as prescribed by Chabad or Chassidic and Kabbalistic philosophies.

If requested, I will show him/her some meditations which incorporate the Torah and mitzvoth into the meditative, awareness, G-dly state of mind.

I also use meditation for therapy as a holistic treatment for health of body and mind.

May you have a good and sweet year, a year of gadlut hamochin.

Tuesday, October 5, 2010

Reactive and Proactive

When someone says the word "RELAX" do you find yourself relaxing or becoming more tense?

If you find yourself becoming tenser than you are being REACTIVE. You are reacting to a word in the opposite way that you should be for whatever reason. The reason does not matter. The only thing that matters is for you to change your "RE-ACTION" to "PRO-ACTION" meaning, YOU TAKE CHARGE!

Think about what the word relax means, not the fact that someone is telling you to do it. The word means to let the body re-lax (to return to being lax once again). To let the muscles become soft and supple. To let the muscles become extended, elongated without pressure or tension pulling them back together. To let the joints expand and release pressure on the ends of the bones where they meet at the joint or at the vertebrae. Do this part by part over the entire body starting with the head and working your way down. Try to visualize the muscles in your body actually releasing all tension. You do not need to know how the body works you need to know that "now I am working on my facial muscles", "now I am working on my neck muscles" and so on until all tension and stress are pushed out through the hands and feet into the air and earth where they dissipate and the only thing left is soft supple muscle and relieved joints. You may feel a light feeling in those parts of the body or a tingling or a pulsating sensation or just an overall balanced feeling in the whole body.

The main thing is, don't RE-ACT rather PRO-ACT. You are in charge of your body, your thoughts and your emotions. Take charge and be PRO-ACTIVE!

Sunday, September 5, 2010

SEVEN STEPS TO KOSHER MEDITATION

SEVEN STEPS TO KOSHER MEDITATION is a seven step technique to learning neutral unaffiliated meditation techniques that once learned can be applied to life, religion or both. It will happen naturally.

Each one of the seven steps are individual meditations and can be downloaded to an MP3 player and listened to daily. However, I recommend that you listen to the instructions and do the homework. If done in this manner it should take about seven weeks to complete the process and by then you will be well on your way to experiencing the benefits of meditation.

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Expanded Awareness

An uncomfortable experience may cause us to automatically find something or someone OUTSIDE OF OURSELVES to point the blame. "The other person is a mirror". (Chassidic proverb) if we find fault or choose to blame something or someone outside of ourselves we will remain stuck in the same loop of facing this "test" again and again. In other words, we will not grow. However, we will advance quickly, if we realize this mistake do introspection. The ability to stop ourselves from this destructive behavior and look at repairing our character traits is called GADLUT HAMOCHIN – EXPANDED AWARENESS.

Wednesday, August 25, 2010

Awareness

There are things happening all around us all the time. Things that keep our attention from being internalized. Things that keep us from becoming aware of what is going on around us. There is so much stimuli we tend to block it out and by doing so we block out the stimuli that can benefit us, the stimuli that keeps us informed of what the Creator wants from us, what nature wants from us. Every moment in which we find ourselves has been designed specifically for us in that moment, so lets take advantage of it and start to investigate what that moment is coming to teach us.
How do we become aware? By becoming observers. We must learn to Observe what is going on around us in a passive way that will not affect us unless we choose for it to do so that means, maintaining control over your emotions and actions. You can become an observer by simply closing your eyes wherever you are and training yourself to experience the sensation of the five senses without reacting.

Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Good morning

it is very important to be aware of what is going on around you. this is how we "chat" with the creator. He speaks to us through the little things the take place around us. it is up to us to keep our eyes open and learn what we can from those things. what is He trying to tell us now? how can we live our lives better? what can we do to benefit the world? what is He showing me by letting me see this thing or hear these words. if it was not meant for me i would not have seen it or heard about it. be aware.